what's it like when someone's scorpio venus conjuncts another person's scorpio mars?? anyone have any experiences of what it was like to share?
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double aRiES
SF Bay Area
  • i have. twice actually.

    in general its a great combination for sex. think of it, the male and female planets together in the sign known for sex! sounds perfect....but unfortunately there are other aspects that may be more important, or that the couple may feel more in the dynamic.
    or it may hold people together who should really move on.

    so for example, in one relationship, we had an exact venus mars conjunction, but we also had an exact sun saturn conjunction - his sun, my saturn. i think his moon squared my pluto too. so altho we did have good sex (not great) it was not a good situation.

    in the second relationship, we definitely did have good sex, from the get go. in fact its the only thing that held us together, and to be honest, it lasted alot longer than it should have......because .........you guessed it. the sex was so good. its really the only thing we had in common but b/c of our attachment to the sex - which translates into attachment for each other - we stayed together waaaaay longer than we should have. it got kind of ugly there at the end .... but maybe that's b/c his venus was squared to my pluto! another indicator for good sex, but watch out for that one.
    • Unsu...
       
      I am Venus in scorpio and my man is mars in scorpio. We also share Scorpio sun, mercury, neptune and 12th house. Sharing is incredible in every way. We share everything physical and abstract. We have the same thoughts and finish each others sentences. We confess to each other things we would never speak of to anyone else. The communication is great in every aspect. We have a hard time being away from each other so much that it interferes with life sometimes. We found that doing things together actually gets things done. There is a strength and power between us that we have never experienced before. Sometimes, we have to force ourselves to seperate from each other which only increases the strength when we reunite. This is so not me and so not him usually. It's a first for both of us. We are like two magnets.
    • >"the sex was so good. its really the only thing we had in common but b/c of our attachment to the sex - which translates into attachment for each other - we stayed together waaaaay longer than we should have."

      No kidding. Venus being the ruler of Taurus - a FIXED sign dealing with material possessions and beauty does add to that. And the Scorpio (also a FIXED sign) angle adds even more "going down with the ship" kind of vibe, even when one sees the writing on the wall.
  • OMG, just now, in the last week, going thru stuff w/Mars in Scorpio man, but check this out: His Venus is in Aquarius! Try that! Talk about frustration. I'm done, b/c he doesn't get it, the real deal, not the superficial, which is where he seems to park his heart....He puts his all into his work, but when it comes to intimacy, I'm toatlly alone b/c he's like somewhere else. I think he's kind of afaid of the intensity, which isn't always some dark tunne, for God's sake! Intimacy is powerful, strong and can take people where they want to go, and many time it can be a in a loving way and a clear way. Anyway, he's allright, I like him now as a friend, but too bad he can't go to that very close and true place called transformative sex.
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      Lacy, I can totally relate. Is his Mars in Scorpio in the 6th house? My guy is Mars in Scorpio with Venus in Virgo but his Mars is in the 6th house. The 6th house represents work. So that's where the passion is dominant. The sex can be transformitive still but you have to let him anticipate it. Sort of stand back till the desire for work runs out and the desire to be intimate with you takes over. It's actually better to have total intimacy waiting a little longer than too much of a good thing and building up the desire in you will be intense too...
      • yes, that fits, what you wrote, thanks, but we're over. No, he can't really kiss that good anyway. and orally, he's clueless. He's not really very manly, actually. He talks too much and it's usually about some childhood memory. his mother hit him a lot., so i've got an uphill thing that I got too tired of. I don't have a lover right now and I'm getting fat, not huge, just soft in the butt. i'm off the whole relationship thing right now. I just stay home on the weekends watching youtube and drink tea and do laundry...and what you said about having to let him "anticipate it"...umm. picture this: when the kids finally go to sleep and we have our time alone, wouldn't you think he'd know to get the action going???Well, he didn't. he just fell asleep. sorry, but I didn't hang out with you all day to have you fall asleep on my couch without sex. see what I mean? clueless. so, let him go back to his work and complain about his co workers and I'll just spend more time alone honing what will be next.

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