How is the Venus ( and Mars ) energy expressed by women and men?

My question is based on differents schools of thought, one representing, that the way we express, the active and passive principle through our Venus and Mars is 50/50, that is, both are equal in women and men, and another that its expressed differently to the extent that her Mars ( and her Sun sign ) represents what she finds attractive in a man. In a man it would be his Moon and Venus which could provide clues to what he looks for in women. So a woman tends to " disown " her Mars energy, and so it is projected onto the men she comes into contact with, since the energy is present in some form and has to go somewhere. Traditionally Mars represents masculine qualities that men relate to and " own ". I know from my own experience that my mars qualities become more dominant when i come into contact with women in venus in scorpio and mars in scorpio. Everything a mars does will be accepted by the venus. Even at a very subconscious level. For the sake of simplicity this would be for heterosexuals because I am clueless how it works with same sex couples. How do you guys feel about your Mars and Venus signs ? Do you relate to one more than than the other ? Can you relate to the description below ?


Men with Venus in Scorpio

The femme fatale is just fine for him. He is especially attracted to women who ooze sensuality, who are perhaps a little dark and mysterious, and who have a magnetic and powerful aura.