The Erring Lover / Friend

Yes, most definitely but usually with lovers instead of friends. I had a period where I continually fell for breezy Taurus'es which found my intensity a bit too overwhelming at times (most of the time, actually...) Now I guess I've learned to keep my passions to myself until I've "figured out" whether or not the potential partner could sustain all of my emotions.

No, I haven't exactly ended things , women in my experience are more likely to realize they can't match me on that level of passionate and intensity much less sexual vigor ...and they run and hide ... I love the weeding out process... so few can hang ... even fellow V.I.S. here and there ....

I have Uranus Mars and Venus in Scorpio. Sun conjunct Pluto conjunct Mercury in Libra but in the 8th house. All the astrologers who have read me usually read me in more Scorpionic light.

I like the all or nothing approach. You give me what I want on this list, or I am not even going to be interested in pursuing this any further. For me, I have always said I will give them everything and more, and I have always delivered my end of the bargain ;-) My lesson is to have enough patience to stick around. Some of the jewels in my relationships were usually revealed to me when I least expect it, or better still, when I think I've just had about enough.

I have very specific and strong likes and dislikes. Those people that I tend to get along with tend stick around for the ride because we have such an intense connection and we bounce off each other very well. As to whether those end well or not is a different story lol However for those that I dont have a connection with I'd probably be nice and friendly but not too interested to go beyond the banter.

Scorpio natives are also very selective. And you have a lot to deal with if you are the Scorpion's chosen one.

Yes, I've severed two different friendships because of lack of loyalty (as in, if you are my real friend---you won't gossip about me behind my back so that our mutual friends like you more!).

And I'm really becoming frustrated with friendships in general right now, because I've lived in this city for three years, and many of the people who I've known for that entire time I still don't feel close to--and partly that's my aquarius moon, i think, but I think it's partly also that people I've met here seem so superficial, and would rather invest themselves in looking the most hipsterish, being the most seen, etc., than in actually caring about other people (their feelings, what's going on in their lives, etc).

I have had lots of 'casual encounters,' though, which my venus did eventually find to be unrewarding. but I'm Sagittarius sun, and I read somewhere that when Sagittarians are burned in what they thought was 'true" love, they'll often resort to cynical promiscuity... which was true for me at least.

I can not do casual sex at all. I also have Sag as my sun sign but it is conj Saturn so I am not so typical. My Venus in Scorpio has kept me alone for quit awhile because the casual relationship (games or whatever) do not sit well with my soul so I avoid the whole mess. Of course there is a yearning to find someone to connect with on a very deep level. Thanks to the Libra Moon. Have not found it yet but always looking. Now days it seems it is hard to find anyone that wants more than the superficial. Is Venus in Scorpio the only sign that wants a deep loving relationship on the intense, real and serious soul level?

And I hate to be correcting grammar but it really grates on me. It's ERRANT not ERRING. No offence intended. Peace out.