my venus in scorpio seems to pull the power games out of boys that usually do not play them
but it seems to be more of a who's dominant thing like puppies do and it plays out in fun ways
because the energy is given a way to play out that works for both people.

I honestly think that if you have mars in scorpio you are likely to have a similar experience of pulling power games out of people
but if you can turn it comfortably into playing games with power instead of it playing with you that might be better

or if you find another way to release that energy (Dancing works really well for me so long as it's intense enough forms)
for yourself you will be less likely to draw that in. AND less willing to take shit from some asshole because you are taking care of yourself in a multitude of ways related to the energy dynamics associated with relationships

This stuff happens because scorpionic energy is so powerful that one who wants a challenge in that arena (generally on a way deeper than concious level)....will be drawn to you and then you get to work it out with them. Most of the time this will be men with plutonic energy and honestly thats not bad if you find ones that are aware of it and using the energy in a positive way.