I am a female with venus in scorpio and find that all of my life I have had men, men of all ages, interested in having sex with me. I've had to deal with a lot of outragious stuff along these lines. Even though this is the case of nature, when I compare with other women their experinces never come close to the things that happen to me. It's like I am a magnet for attracting this even though I do not flirt, I do nothing to attract this type of attention but have developed major trust issues with men because I don't think men take me seriously at all. Have other women with this position had similar experiences? Is this sexuality an aura we project or something?
I am quite intense and deeply desire an all consuming relationship. The trust issues have caused me to stay alone while desiring a relationship that meets my demands of a complete merger which is hard to come by.
I am quite intense and deeply desire an all consuming relationship. The trust issues have caused me to stay alone while desiring a relationship that meets my demands of a complete merger which is hard to come by.
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Mon, March 10, 2008 - 10:19 PMyes it is hard to come by especially if they are a fire sign .
look for water signs cricket .
no air no earth .
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Tue, March 11, 2008 - 12:44 AMYup I have the same problem too. Like I can't be talking to a guy in the queue and then hang out with him for coffee without him wanting to have sex with me after a couple of coffees.
I want friends like that, just chatting friends. But it seems impossible. -
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Tue, March 11, 2008 - 6:31 AMYup, been this way always and have felt bad for not being able to have some really good friendships because of it. i've had to turn away. I feel robbed this way, sometimes, I mean deep passionate sex and relationshis are good but you just can't give that to everyone ya meet.LOL
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Tue, March 11, 2008 - 9:44 AMYes, we seem to def "project an aura of sex" , to all men of all ages, i've pretty much come to terms with it at my age, but it doesn't make it any easier if those men are not who we want to be attracted to us, and it's never the right ones...lol
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Tue, March 11, 2008 - 6:35 PMi went through a heavy venus in scorpio phase last year (this was before i knew much
at all about astrology so i didn't know what it was) where that was definitely the case.
It was flattering to have so many people attracted to me, but it was also really stressful
and irritating.
I think maybe my virgo rising has shielded me from a lot of this throughout my life, though. -
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 6:24 PMladies
if guys all want to have sex with you, you might want to look at the vibe you are putting out.
its probably that you are not projecting any boundaries, and its interpreted as an invitation. -
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 6:43 PMI would not think so. Im very conscious of the vibes I'm projecting when I talk to new strangers and even more conscious of what I wear and what I put on. I can be very detached yet friendly and amiable about most things. In fact I am in a committed relationship right now, and I do talk about it from time to time to the people that I meet. I don't feel that I need to put myself out there for invitations, because I am already fulfilled in that area.
But I have been quite disappointed that no matter how secular the conversations can get, I do get the odd call about meeting them at their place for 'cuddles'. Huh?
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 7:15 PMyes KK as we used to say "if it's not for sale, don't advertise "
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 8:00 PMMen shouldn't be so weak that they can't appreciate a sexy or beautiful woman without thinking that she is going to jump into bed with them. Do we all have to look like dogs and act unfriendly to be friends with members of the opposite sex? -
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Tue, June 3, 2008 - 8:43 AMi agree!! it's totally pathetic of guys to act like they have no self control, but more importantly, anyone can dress or act how ever they want, that doesn't necessarily mean anything, and it doesn't always mean they have something they're "advertising"
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 7:53 PM"Like I can't be talking to a guy in the queue and then hang out with him for coffee without him wanting to have sex with me after a couple of coffees. "
LS
some may say why sit around having 2 coffees with some guy when you're in a committed relationship?
now, i do know guys are complete dogs, don't get me wrong. but for that exact reason, look at what you are doing. 2 coffees for most guys is an invitation into the sack, or at least a good start. just a heads up = don't be drinking cups of coffee with some guy you meet while waiting in line for your coffee at starbucks. -
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 8:21 PMOk, Do not drink coffee with a man ever again...less you loose ur virginity...Carry cash or card and sneak with ur umbrella way to the back corner of starbucks and hope he doesn't see you coz if he does....Sure as shit he's gonna think that you are sneaking over there in order to invite him for sex and he'll bring his own coffee to the table. Or better yet, if ur not in the mood for sex, stay home and drink coffee with the shads down. LOL -
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 8:22 PMshades, or blinds or whatever ya have on ur windows...keep it dark! -
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 9:36 PMYou make me laugh. Jesus christ.
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 8:44 PMkalikat good to see that you're such an enlightened woman ...
more power to you
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 9:23 PMhe he he
the scorpio tribe is funny
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 9:32 PMWe've seen each other for months at the same place and same time having coffee. He works in the building next to mine. What's wrong with a chat??? And it was not a sex chat. I was just how's work, what you do for a living, how's life.
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 9:57 PMthats not what you said.
what you said was "I can't be talking to a guy in the queue and then hang out with him for coffee without him wanting to have sex with me after a couple of coffees. " -
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 10:13 PMOkay, I admit it...as a straight woman, I've wanted Bobbi and LS for quite some time and have secretly lusted for them. What can I say? They're hot tamales damnit! Ok, now I'm going to rehab with Amy Whinehouse. -
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 10:19 PMMaybe we can all have coffee *wink* :) Girls night out...GIRLS ONLY! LOL LS?....Bring ur u dark glasses and zip up ur breasts coz that is an absolute invite for sex with a man. DRESS IN BLACK...No red plz... -
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 10:21 PMIt's just bloody coffee. He's still a guy in the queue. What the hell? Lol -
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 10:29 PMAll I'm saying is that the communication was unclear, LadySaber. I know its the internet here, and things are not always super easy to communicate, but if you're getting you're unclear with your communication here, then there's a chance you're sending mixed messages elsewhere.
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 10:31 PMThat doesn't exactly make any sense. If we all know that's easy for anyone to be unclear because this is the internet and a limited medium for communication, how does that exactly mean someone is unclear in real life? That's not exactly a good indicator that she's sending mixed messages in real life.
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 10:21 PMLOL....Just not Starbucks! I'm trying to walk away from them. Bobbi, you're the one who needs to zip up! You know how I love your boobies :P I never considered myself a breast person either.
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 10:24 PMRight so, in Kalikat's world, any girl that has TWO coffees with a guy is leading him on and wants to have sex. Got it.
Well, I personally agree with this because as I said...it's clear how attractive both Bobbi and LS are. So, any man in his right mind would want to spend time with them..even if it's for coffee. -
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 10:25 PMI think I'm smelling a bit of hate in the air. I wonder where it's coming from...la la la la
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 10:26 PMMy post was suppsed to go under ABs post...Now it's all messed up. LOL I'm just being silly...don't mind me...*wink wink* -
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 10:28 PMI know you was talkin to me sexy thang. Oh, and are you going to wear red or black leather or a trench coat? You know how that gets the mind stirring...heheehe
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 10:31 PMLOL....Just not Starbucks! I'm trying to walk away from them. Bobbi, you're the one who needs to zip up! You know how I love your boobies :P I never considered myself a breast person either.
Nope, they are what they are and it's a flppin 115 degrees here or more most of the time. Clothing and make up is pretty much scarce where I live...
Hows about some double shots...I could use one right about N O W :) -
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 10:33 PMBobbi,
Where I plan to take you you don't really need any clothing and your make up would probably just become sweated off anyhow...LOL.
Good lord woman, now you're trying to get me drunk? Well, I can handle the Petron, so let's start with that. -
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 10:36 PM"It wasn't wine that I had to much of it was a double shot of April baby's love....
OK I'm going to bed (ALONE) before I get hate mail....hee hee
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 10:40 PMI honestly don't know how to take that comment, so I'll leave it alone...hehehe.
Pleasant dreams there dear Bobbi ;) And make sure you put in enough batteries for later ;P -
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 11:08 PMWell I will probably get blasted for it but whatever. On one hand you guys say that the "scorpio" thing scare people way but on the other hand...people seem to be unable to stop themselves from asking you for a lay in the hay.
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Wed, March 12, 2008 - 11:36 PMLOL....Good point there Sarah.
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Thu, March 13, 2008 - 12:25 AMThey say scary sex is the best sex lol -
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Thu, March 13, 2008 - 12:39 AMHuh?? They do not!! Lies! All lies!
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Tue, June 3, 2008 - 8:44 AM* connects Sarah's dots *
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Sat, May 31, 2008 - 11:04 AM"I am quite intense and deeply desire an all consuming relationship. The trust issues have caused me to stay alone while desiring a relationship that meets my demands of a complete merger which is hard to come by."
You are not alone in that statement, I feel less crazy now having read it. Is there anyone else here who feels that way as well?
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Tue, August 12, 2008 - 7:03 AMHi girls, here's a tip. A real "put him n the friend category at once" tip. Mention you boyfriend as early as possible. Even if you're single, make it clear that youre seeing or just started to see someone and that youre crazy about each other.
It sooooo suuuuuuucks to find out later that she is seeng someone. Even if it's a lie and I just got rejected :-P
Btw I like scorpio venus. You make an effort and make your man feel special ;-) -
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Re: Venus in Scorpio Women
Sat, August 23, 2008 - 8:03 AM>>You make an effort and make your man feel special ;-) <<
I make any guy feel specially hard without any efforts from my side ..
and even saying as soon as possible that am engaged ,
does not help,
they all want sexual relations with me,not just sex for sex,
but they want me as lovers : /
However after a while when they understand there will Not be any sex or love with sex afterwards,
they stay my friends :) what I appreciate a lot,
just the fact is I see the Lust in their eyes all the time !!!...lol..
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